User blog comment:Anita333/I can't take it anymore/@comment-8267955-20140503072235

Always be yourself and never change anything. Popularity is temporary and will never get you anywhere and neither will bullying anybody. If you want, I can help you personally and tell you what to do after certain situations and teach you how to handle it. Sometimes it's good to stand up and say what you want to say but never stoop down to their level and remain true to yourself. You have the power to inform an adult and change your situation. You are strong and no one will ever bring you down. You are everything you believe you are and nobody can change that.

Here is my bullying story:

I was bullied continuously since the first grade and it still continues today. I had never fit into a specific category that people associated with me. Some people considered me a smart person and some considered me as a pretty girl (Not saying that I am though, I have no idea what they see in me in my standards I am the equivalent of a hag) but one thing was sure, I was absolutely strange and different from people. I was the person who always spoke in a different way, the person who could answer all of my teachers' questions in a way that seemed that not many people my age could understand. I was the person who atually called out what popular people do in front of their own faces. I called them out when they were doing the wrong things  like bullying. If these kids didn't have the courage to fight back, then I would for them. I was never afraid of popula people. The kind of difference I had lead to countless times of me getting bullied and it was never fun. Nevertheless, I stood by what I was and was genuine to everybody I met. Though I am still bullied s of this day, I had managed to gain a good reputation ever since I had started doing more and more extra curricular activities outside the good old interweb. I invested myself in acting, singing, and performing and it did help tremendously with my depression.

The best words of wisdom I could say is that : When you feel like the whole world is against you, stand, breathe three deep breaths, and say "And I care because?!" . Anybody's opinion on you is never as important as your own. It is you who can define yourself.

This doesn't go out to Rihanna but it goes out to everybody and anybody. Have faith and remember to be strong!