User blog comment:Breannamation/Official Wiki Contest - WINNERS/@comment-25236008-20131023120033/@comment-25234327-20131025000653

Well, congrats, Sola. You did a great job and I was sure you would win anyways. I must say, I was totally BLOWN AWAY once I saw your entry.

Evie, I totally know how you feel! Really! Each time I lose in a contest, I feel like pulling out my hair. But I still enter contests because I courage myself that I might win and if I don't, I'll just have to let it go because I can't do anything about it. It's hard to see yourself lose, that's how I feel I do, but what happened finished and there's nothing we can do about it. Thenaturals runs this contest and she is also an admin on the wiki, so it's hard to tell her how much anger you have, she can do anything with your account! I wanted to cry so much when I found out I didn't win but because I couraged myself to let it go, I left the win to Sola and didn't make a problem about it. Sure, you might get prizes you really want when you win but someone else took it away from you and you're in such a bad mood, but it's just a contest, to me it wasn't just a contest, it was much more than that, but I let it go because I believed that I will win a contest one day and that's why I never give up. I was in a bad mood when I found out that Solarius won and I couldn't brighten up one bit but then I suddenly forgot about winning the contest and thought about something else. Now, when I think about the contest, I feel no new emotion coming into me. Really, no anger.

Don't be angry or mad, and don't give up either! Keep encouring yourself when you are feeling down when you lose in a contest and whatever you do, don't make a problem out of something that had already happened and finished because you can easily forget about it for a few hours and I'm pretty sure you will feel no anger after those few hours just like me. And you have to keep your temper down, just try to do that. I'm quite busy with school now and when I saw who was first place in the contest, I was shattered into pieces and was in a bad mood. It's hard to let go of something you really wanted but sometimes you just have to let it go after it's done. I really hoped that I was first place in the contest, I'm a very hopeful person, but I wasn't in neither of the places and I already had a feeling that I wouldn't win the contest but I encouraged myself to not think of something horrible that I didn't want.

Just take my advice for this situation.